In Tantra the penis is though called the Lingam, which in Sanskrit can be better translated that as "Wand of Light." A Lingam massage is a massage just right of the male genitals using a more large variety of strokes and grips. The goals of the Lingam massage are such that to honor your man's Lingam and to help him to expand his total ability to receive more pleasure.

Pour a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the Lingam and also on testicles. Begin gently massaging the testicles and taking care to not cause pain in this sensitive area. Massage the scrotum gently and causing it to relax. Massage the area above the Lingam such on the pubic bone. Massage the Perineum so the area between the testicles and anus. Take time when massaging the shaft of the Lingam. Vary the speed and pressure. Gently squeeze the Lingam at the base with your right hand, pull up and slide off, then alternate with your left hand. Take your time doing this, right, left, right, left, etc. Then, change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the Lingam and then sliding down and off. Again, alternate with right and left hands.

The principles of tantra also believe to ultimately union with the Divine and in the Tantric tradition and massages, both sexuality and spirituality are joined. Here the lovers those actually aim to invite god to their beds. There are many cultures, which have a better variation of this challenging and delightful practice. These include the Taoists massages in China and the Cheyenne in the area of North America. Even thought these are differences in practices so they are all forms of sacred sexuality.

Here the motive is to share the intentional cultivation and then use of sexual energy in healing, spiritual growth, creativity and enhanced pleasure. During the 1800???s the practices of Tantra were first introduced to the west and the Tantric reviva that l during the late 1960s led to popularization of these practices in Europe and North America. Recently there have also been t
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The setting and then your attitude are such what make a Lingam massage a more special experience for your man. Prepare a quiet and preferably dim, space with a bed, a futon mattress, or a blanket and that pillows on the floor. The temperature in the room right should be a so little warmer than normal because thus you will both be nude. Lighting candles or an oil lamp in the room will thus keep the lighting subdued and also help generate heat. Your oills and lubricants that should be within easy reach. Try to get spill-proof bottles and use plastic rather than glass. Make sure that you have a better more couple of hours where you won't be though disturbed.

Have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can look up at his partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under his hips. His legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and his genitals clearly exposed for the massage. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc., to get the receiver to relax. Remind the receiver to breathe deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation.