Are you an alcoholic? Do you cringe at that thought? Do you have all the pat answers as to why your drinking is okay? Are you secretly avoiding admitting that you might be an alcoholic? Do you tell yourself that you an stop anytime you want? What happens when you ignore your drinking habits? Actually, you’re ignoring the things that trigger you to drink. And ignoring problems just makes them worse. You end up in a downward spiral, ignoring all the signs of trouble. That’s the problem with something that so easily takes away our emotional struggles. We end up using alcohol or some other drug instead of looking inside to see what it is we’re running away from. It could be something as simple as no purpose in life – or it could be some long-standing emotional pain. Pretty soon it becomes an unconscious habit to cover up even the slightest feeling of uneasiness. To find out if you’re on this downward spiral, what are some of the signs to look for?
If you find yourself in any of the above, now what? Perhaps you’ve tried to quit on your own and weren’t successful. In fact, you’re wondering if it’s possible to ever permanently quit. Yes, it is possible to quit drinking forever! What’s the first step? To admit to yourself that you’ve got a problem. Until you do, you’ll never have the courage to take responsibility for your life to find out how to change. Notice I didn’t say you had to go to a support group and stand in front of a group and tell everyone you’re an alcoholic. In fact, I encourage you to stay away from support groups. But I do encourage you to find someone (not a former alcoholic) who will work with you as you go through this transition. Then you need to look at some of the emotional issues you’re running from. Write them down. Which issues can be dealt with first? Which issues do you have no clue on how to handle? If you’ve got anxieties that you don’t know what is causing them, I invite you to take a look at the “EFT” link on my website. This is a very simple, proven technique that helps you deal with anxieties and other emotional issues. The technique is like “emotional acupuncture” and it will help you through every aspect of dealing with your issues as you stop your drinking. |