If you find that being needed is more important to you than being loved, if you've been exposing yourself or others to emotional violence, if you are the victim (or the perpetrator) of domestic abuse - it's time for your suffering to end.

Issues with codependency, emotional violence, and domestic abuse are often produced early in life when a child's upbringing includes influences that hindered their personal development. It is not their fault that this problem arose; but it is their responsibility to handle it.

Oftentimes resistance like denial or fear can keep a person from confronting their situation. A person can feel helpless, out of control, and unable to escape their hell. They may be enablers, perpetuating the problem. They may be addicted to the pattern of unhealthy behavior, for example: locked in the misguided belief that they deserve this treatment, or that any attention at all, even negative attention, is love.

Oftentimes, a person may not even realize that they're being exposed to emotional violence in their relationships; they just know that something between them and their partner doesn't feel right, no longer feels good.

Whatever the case, unrecognized, codependency, emotional violence, and domestic abuse will only get worse and worse. Ignoring it won't make it go away. Nor will the naive hope that it was just a "one time thing" or a temporary phase that will correct itself in time.

There are many varied types of emotional dysfunction that exist in relationships, and a diversity of signs to look for to identify whether you're in the clutches of any of them. There's also a terrible gamut of dire effects that prolonged codependency issues, emotional violence, and domestic abuse can have, if left unattended.

Recognizing the problem is the first step to healing it. Identifying the problem is the second. Facing it is the third. For guidance and support through all three of these steps, consider Codependency Emotional Violence & Domestic Abuse, an invaluable video resource from www.Learning Trove.com. You can see details at

While never professing to replace professional counseling and, in extreme cases, legal support, this video can shine a bright light on the path to healing. It will give you insight into yourself and your situation that will empower you with the compassion and courage to finally face your problems.

The "Codependency Emotional Violence & Domestic Abuse" video is great for individuals facing their own demons, whether in a relationship or not, for couples wishing to prevent or a correct a problem and open the way for a more mutually loving and supportive relationship, as well as for mature students in order to teach them basic emotional health and help prepare them for having a lifetime of healthy relationships.