How To Become A More Confident BoyfriendThere are many men out there who are very weak in terms of deciding what they want and how they deal with women. They actually let women walk all over them, and the worst thing is some of them actually enjoy it. If one lets this happen for too long, what happens is the woman will start to despise him and lose respect for him. Very few women are actually attracted to weak men. So what can you do about this, if you're in this situation? The first thing you have to do is work on your self-esteem, and build your confidence because confidence is the number one most important factor when it comes to attraction, and women look for this. Why is this so? Women simply find a man with tons of confidence extremely sexy. Ask any woman this and she will tell you it's true. There are many factors that can explain why confidence is so important in the eyes of females, perhaps it has something to do with being an Alpha male, or perhaps it shows some sort of survival instinct. Of late, scientists have done many research studies and the results show that confident males tend to succeed more in life than ones who aren't. Perhaps, confidence also has something to do with perseverance and not accepting failure too easily. So how do you develop this kind of confidence in yourself? There are many self-help courses out there for you to buy and read (or listen to). Many great instructors such as Anthony Robbins can be quite inspirational in this journey. There are many dating guides out there as well, some of which are good and a lot of them are just nonsense. So you will need to look out for this. Another way you can build your self-esteem as well as confidence is to model yourself after someone that you know who has these traits in their character. An example could be a parent or friend who is successful with dealing with women. If you don't know anybody like this, go out and meet some new friends. Do not work in isolation as building your social skills is also an important aspect, when working on your own personality. Finally, learn to say "no". A lot of timid men just don't know when to refuse a woman. They feel that they have to cater for every requirement that a woman has. Being able to say no when it counts really makes a big difference in how you appear to a female. You see, Alpha males and dominant males know what they want all the time. The next time she asks you to do something ridiculous, or even if you're too busy, just say "no" without any other excuses behind it. Experiment with this over the forthcoming weeks and observe what happens. You will be pleasantly surprised how such a simple thing can lead to significant changes within your relationship. There are many men out there who are very weak in terms of deciding what they want and how they deal with women. They actually let women walk all over them, and the worst thing is some of them actually enjoy it. If one lets this happen for too long, what happens is the woman will start to despise him and lose respect for him. Very few women are actually attracted to weak men. So what can you do about this, if you're in this situation? The first thing you have to do is work on your self-esteem, and build your confidence because confidence is the number one most important factor when it comes to attraction, and women look for this. Why is this so? Women simply find a man with tons of confidence extremely sexy. Ask any woman this and she will tell you it's true. There are many factors that can explain why confidence is so important in the eyes of females, perhaps it has something to do with being an Alpha male, or perhaps it shows some sort of survival instinct. Of late, scientists have done many research studies and the results show that confident males tend to succeed more in life than ones who aren't. Perhaps, confidence also has something to do with perseverance and not accepting failure too easily. So how do you develop this kind of confidence in yourself? There are many self-help courses out there for you to buy and read (or listen to). Many great instructors such as Anthony Robbins can be quite inspirational in this journey. There are many dating guides out there as well, some of which are good and a lot of them are just nonsense. So you will need to look out for this. Another way you can build your self-esteem as well as confidence is to model yourself after someone that you know who has these traits in their character. An example could be a parent or friend who is successful with dealing with women. If you don't know anybody like this, go out and meet some new friends. Do not work in isolation as building your social skills is also an important aspect, when working on your own personality. Finally, learn to say "no". A lot of timid men just don't know when to refuse a woman. They feel that they have to cater for every requirement that a woman has. Being able to say no when it counts really makes a big difference in how you appear to a female. You see, Alpha males and dominant males know what they want all the time. The next time she asks you to do something ridiculous, or even if you're too busy, just say "no" without any other excuses behind it. Experiment with this over the forthcoming weeks and observe what happens. You will be pleasantly surprised how such a simple thing can lead to significant changes within your relationship. |