Your attitude determines how your life will turn out. You don't have to rely on other people to find your happiness and fulfillment in life; rather you look within you because we have this treasure in earthen vessel which is our body. Don't allow what people say or do affect your life because it is actually what you say that will have the greatest effect on your life.

Never allow what critics say get to you; always see them as a stepping stone to greatness. You can hear their words but refuse to consider it by action differently. Always be conscious of the words you say, for that is what will launch you into the future you want. Have confidence in who you are and what you can do because nobody can do things or say things exactly like you because you are fearfully and wonderfully made (unique). You are the best of you that your maker has.

Always have control over your emotions and actions because a positive attitude will always produce a positive decision.

Identify those negative attitudes that hold you back and replace them with positive ones. In life there are always challenges but it helps you know where you are in relation to where you desire to be.

Always believe in yourself; do not doubt your abilities. Never feel frustrated even when things are not working out the way you wanted it.

Be focused and be in charge of the circumstances of your life b y setting in motion your expectations and dreams using that wonderful instrument in your mouth called the Tongue because your tongue goes your life goes. Your life today is as a result of the words you said yesterday. So for a great tomorrow to be delivered to you, say the right word today.

Have the discipline to maintain your composure even at the face of contrary situations. Never let anxiety take a hold of your life ad don't abandon yourself to fear, for fear has torment and it will destroy your positive attitude.

Even if you fail, dust yourself and move forward knowing that you have learned from that experience a better way of doing whatever it is. Do not live in the defeat or the failure of yesterday. Never see yourself as being victimized by asking the question " why is this happening to me?" who do you want it to happen to? Remember, you need those challenges to bring out the best in you because Gold is not found at the surface and its beauty comes out after it has passed through fire

Go for things that motivate you. Never tell people how you feel but how you want to feel because by using positive words, you can change your physical and mental state.

When you feel discouraged, close your eyes; put a big smile on your face and think about someone you love or something you love doing, and if you are a Christian, that is the time to stir up your faith by praying in tongues. As you do the spirit gives you Rhema which is powerful than any two edge sword. With Rhema, you have it made.

Make friends with those that will not be afraid to correct you when you deviate from the prescribed order because it is only your friend that will tell you that your mouth smells. Let them be people that will not be jealous or envious when you make progress rather, they encourage you to attain greater success.

Copyright, Sandra Jedidiah.