Have you ever tried to court a girl? Have you ever tried to win her approval and affection by saying nice things to her all the time (eg. praising her beauty)? If so, then I bet it probably didn't turn out very well. In fact, I'm pretty sure that the girl eventually got immune to your 'nice guy' gestures and started avoiding your calls.

Have you ever wondered why? I mean, shouldn't being nice and sweet to a girl cause her to like you?

Well, first of all, everything we've ever learnt about romance is totally wrong. I'm not kidding. Ever since we were born, almost everything the media has fed us about attracting women is a lie. In the movies, the sweet sensitive guy who goes out of his way to please a woman always ends up with her, and they live happily ever after. In reality however, women seldom react positively to a guy who showers them with too much attention and compliments. The fact is, complimenting her too often will backfire and cause her to resent you, instead of liking you.

Let me explain why. Women, especially the hot ones, receive at least 20-30 compliments on a daily basis. (Compliments here refer not just to verbal utterances, but also to lingering glances, lusty stares, and other non-verbal cues that signify male interest) In other words, these women are so used to guys giving them compliments in one way or another, that they become rather immune to it. In fact, many of them start to get annoyed by men who constantly offer praises to gain their approval. They perceive such men as weak and boring, who need to compensate for a lack of personality by complimenting excessively.

So, is there any way around this situation?

This may seem ridiculous, but believe it or not, insulting her will cause her to be attracted to you. Yup, giving a woman a negative comment will go much further towards creating a lasting impression than a compliment ever will. Just imagine, a beautiful girl receives hundreds of compliments from different men every week. Then one day, someone comes along one day and says something non-too-flattering to her. Which of them do you think will she remember - the hundreds who complimented her, or the one guy who stood out from the rest and 'dissed' her? The answer is obvious - the guy who didn't give her what she expected to hear.

But don't misunderstand, these 'insults' must not be conveyed in a malicious way so as to be considered offensive. The idea here is not to piss her off, but rather, to communicate to her that you are not emasculated by her beauty, unlike 99% of the other guys she's met. And the only way to ensure this is by employing the right body language and tonality. But that is the subject for another day.

So far, whatever I've mentioned above about women might seem illogical, even nonsensical to you. But trust me, that's the reality of things. Women just aren't triggered by all that sacharine Disney-style romance we all grew up with. The truth is, attracting women requires a whole new set of skills that society never equipped us with. To unlock a woman, we need to use a totally different set of techniques that runs counter to our natural instinct. The one we've just talked about - being rude and mean to her - is but one of the numerous techniques that form the basis of successful seduction.

A word of caution though. These techniques, when used properly, are so powerful that a woman will immediately feel an intense, yet inexplicable attraction for the man. This will confuse and mystify her, because she will not normally be attracted to such a man. The usual criteria that a woman uses to qualify and select a man is simply thrown out of the window. As such, any man, be he short or ugly or broke or overweight, can induce powerful feelings of attraction and desirability within the woman if he employs these techniques properly. Continuous use of these techniques will render the woman utterly powerless to the man, till the point where her entire world is virtually in the palm of his hand - that's how powerful it is!

So beware, if you are ever considering learning these techniques, be extremely mindful of what you are stepping into. es, you will have an unfair advantage over other guys. Yes, you will have unprecedented success with women. But do not abuse your power once you have it! These techniques will give you the secrets of attracting any woman, but if you use them without discretion and with ignoble intentions, there will be serious and far-reaching consequences. Such is the way of this world. Don't say I didn't warn you.