Im normaly asked, what could I do after break up whilst I still have a crush on ex boyfriend? My answer has always been this, what do you wish to do? I understand that this is not the reply youve imagined but its bizarre that a person you used to sleep with, the one you devoted everything, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, It is unachievable to love and be wise even if its good someday youll pay for it.

Its obviously easy to say love is pain when you arent hurting but when you are in an intimate relationship with someone who abuses you its like been in hell. Can you imagine all that tenderness... may be those Chrysanthemums flowers... all that I love you... those chocolates and butterflies, lost in a thin air, thats uneasy to swallow isnt it?

How do you act in this situation?


Phoning your ex guy is not advisable. Demanding a compassion to go back is something you dont want to do. What should you do? To start you have to accept that love is only a state of mind, its the way you flavor your partner. When you alter that feeling, there is no intimancy. Do you understand? Let me set it right to you for a moment.

Simply think about this, before you ran into your ex boyfriend, you had no feelings or anything about him. Even when I were to elaborate him it wouldnt build the attraction the way you do now. Do you acknowledge why? Because the moment you have passion with a guy, you establish attraction, which is conditioned, in your neurology. The more you stay together in affectionate way, the more you reinforce those neuron pathways in your brain which causes you to establish more emotions (love).

Indeed, as you breakup with an ex boyfriend there is a violent acquired desire that causes you to feel overwhelmed. If you cant get your ex boyfriend back then youre in heat. This is the reason you cant operate your job attentively or why you feel uncomfortable about your appearance because of mood disorders caused by breakupbreak up. This alter the way you do actions and your over all conduct. The only way to act upon this is to change how you embrace wild affection. You must change how you feel about your man.

Ill go over this in detail...

Take any book you can acquire nearby, grip it while looking at the front part then move it some and then pay attention to it from the back, then from the sides . You will notice that, its appearance changes depending on which position you are seeing it. The book is the same but the way you look at it, changed. Now, Im not trying to compare your ex boyfriend with the book. What I mean here is this, when you change the how you feel about your ex, break up will not impacts you. Probably you have a numerous queries of how to apply this? The good news is there is a trick to assist you forget your ex boyfriend quickly. This technique will make you forget him completely, you will be better off than you can handle.