Im daily asked, what must I do after breakup whilst Im infatuated by a guy? My reply has always been this, how do you want to feel? I understand that this is not the answer youve predicted but its bizarre that a guy you used to love so much, the one you gave your soul, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, love is pain which causes us all dumb sometime.

Its a piece of cake to say love hurts when you are not hurting but when you are in love with a guy who abuses you its like been in hell. Can you remember all that tenderness... may be those Lotuss flowers... all that I care for you... those chocolates and flirting, gone in a thin air, thats evil isnt it?

How do you act in this circumstances?


Calling your ex boyfriend is not advisable. Demanding a forgiveness to go back is a bad suggestion. What important thing to do? To start you have to assume that love is nothing but a state of mind, its how you feel about the other person. When you alter that feeling, there is no passion. Do you see? Let me unfold it to you for a minute.

Just think about this, before you got involve with your ex boyfriends life, you didnt sense any bond with him. Even when I were to give all details about him it wouldnt build the attraction the way you feel now. Do you know why? Because when you are infatuated by a man, you create attraction, which is developed, in your neuro system. The longer you spend time together in a loverly way, the more you hardwire those neuron pathways in your brain and that means you establish more allurement (love).

From now on, when you breakup with a man there is a strong reinforced emotionalattachment that makes you feel embarassed. If you cant get him back then youre in a bad situation. This draws a conclusion why you cant reflect in a satisfactory manner or why you get unsettled about your appearance because of been frighten caused by breakupbreak up. This affects how you perform activities and your over all affair. A simple way to get over this is to alter the way you manage elations. You must change how you feel about your man.

Ill illustrate...

Get any book you can find nearby, carry it while facing the front part then move it around and then see it from different directions . You will notice that, its appearance look different base on what face you are facing it. The book is the unchanged but the how you look at it, changed. Now, Im not trying to compare your ex with the book. What I mean here is this, when you alter the way you feel about your ex boyfriend, break up will not affects you. How would you do that? Luckly there is a method to aid you forget your ex boyfriend now. This technique will make you cope with break up completely, you will be more blessed than you can imagine.