Im daily asked, what could I do after break up while Im still crazy about my ex? My reply has always been this, how do you wish to feel? I can see that this is not the reply youve expected but its odd that a man you used to make love to, the one you gave away your soul, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, It is impossible to love and be smart even if its good someday youll pay for it.

Its a piece of cake to say love hurts when you are not hurting but when you are in a relationship with someone who doesnt have feelings for you its like been in hell. Can you remember all that caressing... may be those Daisys flowers... all that I love you... those candles and love stories, are now perish, thats shitty experience isnt it?

How do you act in this place?


Calling your ex guy is not advisable. Calling for condonation to return is going to hurt you more. Now you may ask what is most satisfactory for you? To start you have to be informed that love is nothing but a state of mind, its how you flavor your partner. When you change that notion, there is no intimancy. Do you understand? Let me make it clear to you for a second.

Simply remember this, before you got involve with your ex boyfriends life, you had no feelings or anything about him. Even if I were to give all details about him it wouldnt cause you to fee the way you do now. Do you acknowledge why? Because as you have passion with a guy, you create attraction, which is learned, in your neuro system. The more you stay together in affectionate way, the more you reinforce the attraction in your brain which causes you to build more emotions (love).

Thus, as you breakup with a man there is a violent acquired excitation that causes you to feel worried. If you cant save a lost love then youre in heat. This indicates why you cant grasp excellently or why you feel out of place about your appearance because of behavioral disorders caused by breakupbreak up. This influences the way you do activities and your over all conduct. A simple way to get over this is to change the way you embrace these emotions. You must change how you feel about your man.

Ill put it in plain English...

Take a book you can acquire nearby, grasp it while facing the front part then turn it 180 degrees and then look at it from different directions . You will learn that, its display look different base on which position you are facing it. The book is the unchanged but the how you look at it, changed. Now, Im not trying to compare your guy with the book. What I mean here is this, when you change the how you feel about your ex boyfriend, breakup will not affects you. How would you do that? Luckly there is a trick to help you get over your ex boyfriend quickly. This technique will make you move on after break up completely, you will be glad than you can anticipate.