You and your partner have just split, losing someone you care about or love is extremely hard. But for whatever the reason you know you do not want to live without them. So you start thinking about getting back your ex. Some universal tips to get your ex back may help.

1st Tip.

Right off the bat you should cut it off completely with your ex. Not saying you won’t be running into one another if you have common friends, jobs or visit the same places it is bound to happen some. Just stop trying to socialize with them. Let some time pass and give the both of you some time to think and calm down emotionally.

2nd Tip.

Right now things are in a real emotionally turmoil so you don’t need to just drop out of site and live like a hermit, go out and be with some old friends you haven’t seen in awhile. Now is the time you will need your friends. Not to cry to but to do things with and keeping on living. Getting back your ex will depend on you remaining active and interested in life, no one would want to come back to a dull old hermit.

3rd Tip.

Take care of yourself. Sometimes during a relationship things tend to become dull. Maybe some new clothes, a hair cut, perm or make over. Don’t just let yourself go. There was a reason that your ex was attracted to you once and you need to try to find that person again. So splurge on yourself a little.

4th Tip.

White your taking a break from your ex try dating someone else. And if your ex is dating don’t let that trip you out. Do not date just to make your ex jealous. Have fun meeting new people and finding out about them not talking about your ex, if you are worried about your ex finding someone new and losing them forever most likely it isn’t going to happen.

Studies show that around 90% of all rebound relationships never work out. Remember to keep your cool and don’t make a lot of mistakes that could ruin your chance of getting back your ex for good. The more you stay away from your ex and keep living life the more your ex will see you in a new light and start thinking of the times you had together. If you know how to play your cards you can get your ex back quickly.