If you are reading this chances are you have broken up and want to know how to get your ex back. Well I know how you feel because I have suffered through a break up and got my ex back. And I learned a few things along the way that may help you get your ex back also.

The main thing when we first split is emotions are very messed up and we need to just take a little time to get to the point where we can think with our minds and not our hearts. There’s really no set time to take every situation is different and could range from a few days to months.

But rest assured if there was love in the beginning then the same things that attracted the two of you together in the first place is still there somewhere. All you have to do is find it again but you have to be thinking clearly to do that. It is way to easy to appear desperate and out of control with your emotions out of whack. All that any contact will do is make your ex resist you more if you show you are out of control.

Likely if they loved you once, they may be thinking about how to get back love also. Give them time to think things through at a time like this when emotions are running wild. Who knows that may be all they need.

It all depends on a lot of different situations but it couldn’t hurt to give a little time. You have probably heard the saying, “absence makes the heart grow fonder?” Once you start thinking straight again you can then start working on how to get your love back.

You can put together a plan on how to get your love back, what to say, the best way to say it and things not to say. The way you communicate with your ex the first few times after a break up is going to set the stage for the rest of the process in getting your love back.

Believe me if you rush in with your emotions out of whack you are going to do and say things that will back fire and cause things to go on for much longer and could even damage your relationship to the point that you may never be able to win your love back.