If you just went through a breakup and are still wondering what went wrong, you need to back track a little. Were there signs of a breakup? Did you feel he or she might be up to something else?

If the answer to both the questions Is no, then do not be amazed since many times the reason behind ones breakup seems confusing.

So now you are only left with his or her explanation of why the breakup up took place. So here is how to read in between the lines to maybe try to spot the reason behind him or her breaking your heart.

If he or she says, thing like "Honey you are a great person, but it's me who is wrong" the line basically means, they want to make you feel good about your self, and not to sound like an ultimate mean person. They want you to feel that you are great, and can find anyone body else. Well guess what if they were so happy with you why would they leave you?

"I am not ready for a commitment" this line usually means I am not ready for any commitment or responsibly at the moment, so if you want to be with me, for free fun then go right ahead. This line is a dangerous one. Since if you choose to stick with such a person, if later they break your heart they can always quote the line again saying, they warned you they were not serious. Never ever go with such a line since, it can cause you heart break later on.

"Can we be friends" this is also a risky line, now this person just wants to gain some extra time or still leave you with some hope. If you say yes to this one, he or she might call you often whenever they feel they are lonely or want company. Maybe they just want to keep a close check on you etc. but if you choose to be friends with the person then make sure you do things on your own terms. Usually people can take advantage of your vulnerability while using the word "friends"