We are solely responsible for every person and relationship that comes into our experience.  Specifically, the culmination of all thought patterns created in our minds carry a specific vibratory offering which attracts everything in our material reality, including all people and the behavior they express toward us.

Since we can only attract people who are a vibratory match to our own energetic thought offering, focusing on our experience of unwanted people, circumstances, events or behavior around current or past romantic partners causes a repeat of the same relationship patterns throughout our lifetimes.

That's why so many people claim there are no good partners out there - while others find ideal partners in abundant supply.

The first step to transforming our point of attraction, is asking ourselves the question: "what mental record have we been playing that has manifested unhappy relationships into our experience?"  From there, watch your thoughts and take note of the ones that come into your mind about your relationships, potential partners in general or how you fit in with them.

When we become aware of what our deep seated beliefs are, we can consciously and deliberately change our story by telling ourselves the truth.  The truth is that we are infinitely Loved, and that is not dependent on whether any particular person shows us affection or what our past experiences have been.

Aligning our thoughts with the independence that is our true essence is the key to attracting everything we desire. This means that thoughts about our current situation that create a feeling of dependence upon anyone or anything must be transformed in order to improve the people and relationships we are attracting.

Everything that we experience is for our benefit to guide us toward the expansion of our awareness, in order to tune ourselves to what we truly desire.  Deep down every person is created and sustained in pure Unconditional Love, which is also the source of every human impulse. It is the filter of mind, memory and emotion which usually distorts Love as it is being expressed through the self image.

Humans can only experience Unconditional Love through our individual bodies and minds from a uniquely self-centered perspective. In order to have this experience through our relationships, our thoughts must be in alignment with our unlimited essence.

When our minds are consistently under our conscious control, we can deliberately determine how we experience the expression of Love from other people. In fact, through attention, we can upgrade our internal dialog and create our true desires in every aspect of life.

By realizing what relationship possibilities feel best with the heartfelt expectation that we will experience those possibilities – while also feeling perfectly comfortable with being Alone – we prepare ourselves to attract exactly what we want.  Whatever relationship we develop within ourselves, through our thought offerings and the feelings they create, is always an exact match for what we are attracting in our lives.

Creating the people and relationships that we experience in no way harms any other person or denies their own power to create what they want.  Every person is creating exactly what they have projected for, and their experience of us is entirely their own creation – just like our experience of them is our own creation.

For those of us who are already in a relationship, we can direct our thoughts to improve our vibratory offering, and get more of what we want out of it.  Alternatively, through alignment of our energy, we may discover that our path is no longer merged with our current partner, and that relationship will easily dissolve making way for the new.

Despite everything, see yourself as pure Love, perfect and fulfilled, and let the people who do not match that vibratory offering move gracefully out of your experience - as you begin to attract those who support your purpose.