Are you in the process of getting a divorce but don’t want to go through with it? You would rather try to salvage the marriage before it’s too late. You will have to do some convincing to your partner that you want to give the relationship another try. It is not always possible to stop the divorce but if you don’t try you will never know and the earlier you can stop it the better.

You are going to have to convince your partner to give the relationship another chance, but if you have been begging them not to proceed with this, you may be making them angrier. You need to stop with his attitude because you may be convincing your partner that this divorce is a good idea.

Change your attitude so you look like you are not stressed out over this and when you talk to your partner be calm and collective. Explain that you don’t want the divorce and would like to make things better. Explain how you are hurt and would like to fix things and try again. You may find that your partner reacts more positive toward you when you are calm and reasonable.

Why not suggest marriage counseling to find and overcome any issue between the two of you. If you can convince them to go to counseling, you will have bought yourself some time to save your marriage. During counseling you can show how much you really care about making things right. Whatever problems the two of you had will come up with your counselor and they will help you overcome them.

If you succeed in stopping the divorce keep in mind that your partner was very close to going through with it and it would be very easy for them to do it again if they get upset over something. You will need to make sure whatever lead to this in the first place never happens again.