Getting legally divorced is not the hard part, starting your life over is what is really difficult. You must look at this time of your life as a time filled with new opportunities and a time to fulfill all those dreams that just never came to be. As difficult as you feel it is to start over, if you follow some of the steps below this article will help in making your journey easier.

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First, try to put past memories away. This may not be easy but don't spend your time thinking about the past. Forget the good and the bad about your ex husband or wife. They should be the last people you think about. Try to forget for a while that you were married. If you must remember that you were married, keep in mind all the negatives and why you got divorced.

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Second, spend time with friends. It is very important to spend time with people who care about you and that you care about. Re-connect with old friends whom your spouse may have never liked and didn't want to spend time with. Go to new places with these friends new restaurants and bars. Get tickets to movies and concerts, most important enjoy yourself.

Start a job, if you were a woman and didn't work and had chose to be a homemaker find a job, doing something you always wanted to do. Whether you need the job to make ends meet or take advantage of the education you never used, now is the time to start hunting. This is the perfect time to start a new career if the one you had before you didn't like it. The past restrictions put on a job bynmarriage are gone.

Lastly, think of today as the first day of the rest of your life. It is not the end, but the beginning. Your life can be whatever you want it to be as long as you start out in the right frame of mind.