Your marriage was great - you were the perfect couple. Somewhere down the way, problems began to appear. Your happy marriage turned miserable. You know that you and your ex wife really do belong together - you can rebuild a relationship together, and be happy again. You've tried all that you could think of to win her back, but nothing worked. There ARE ways to win her back, and they DO work. But - there are things you should know, before you begin.

Many times, one of the reasons that we can't get our exes back is because we want them back for the wrong reasons. Are you scared of dating again? Are you jealous that she is dating another man? Think about WHY you want her back, and be honest as possible. If you know that you want her back for GOOD reasons, then you can win her heart again.

You miss her more than anything in the world, but right now you have to give her room to breathe. Give her - give BOTH of you - time to think about your relationship. When your emotions are as strong as yours are for her, then hers are surely the same for you. The two of you just had problems that you weren't sure how to fix.

The best thing that you can do when you want to get your ex wife back is to allow her time. That may sound terrible, and it may sound stupid, but think about it. Put yourself in HER shoes. Would you want her coming after you, when you are still upset about the break-up? Or would you rather have time alone, to think about everything.

By thinking about how YOU would want her to treat you, you will be more able to win her back. If you don't think that way, then you're probably going to do things that will only push her away.

When is the last time you saw your family? Or went out with your friends? If it's been a long time, why not call them? They would love to hear from you, and you really could use some time with other people who love you. It will help to keep your mind off of her, for a time, at least.

When you're ready to take the first step to win her back, be calm. Emotions make things hard sometimes, especially when we're upset. If you are upset, she will be, too. On the other hand, if you stay calm, so will she. Your best chances to get her back will be for you to stay as calm as you possibly can when you talk to her.

By showing her that you CAN be easy to talk to, or fun to be with, and by showing her that you want to try again, she will begin to open up to you again. As long as you don't dredge up the past, you will be better able to get her heart back.

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