I'm normaly asked, what must I do after break up even if I'm still attached to a guy? My answer has always been this, how do you need to feel? I realize that this is not the reply you've looked for but it's bizarre that a guy you used to care for, the one you rendered your life, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, 'It is unthinkable to love and be wise' there is always a price for it.

It is easy to say love is pain when you aren't hurting but when you are in love with an individual who doesn't spend some quality time with you it's like been treated like nothing. Can you remember all that touch... may be those Irises flowers... all that 'I love you'... those chocolates and fantacies, is dried up, that's awful isn't it?

What should you do?

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Phoning your ex boyfriend is not the best advice. Requiring a compassion to return is even severer. Now you may ask what is better for you? First you have to learn that love is nothing but a state of mind, it's how you feel about your partner. When you change that belief, there is no attraction. Do you see? Let me put it in plain english to you for a moment.

Simply think about this, before you got involve with his life, you didn't feel anything about him. Even when I were to give all details about him it wouldn't create feelings the way you do now. Do you understand why? Because when you are obsessed with a man, you build emotional response, which is conditioned, in your neuro system. The longer you spend time together in a romantic way, the more you reinforce that connection in your brain which causes you to establish more attraction (love).

Hereinafter, when you breakup with an ex boyfriend there is an intensive activated emotions that causes you to feel hopeless. If you can't get him back then you're a crisis. This explains why you can't perform your craft properly or why you feel uncomfortable about your appearance because of uncertainty caused by breakupbreak up. This disturb the way you do activities and your over all behaviors. A simple way to get over this is to change how you manage these desires. You have to change how you feel about your ex boyfriend.

Let me break up down...

Pick up any book you can find around, grasp it while seeing the front part then turn it 180 degrees and then observe it from the back, then from the sides . You will find that, its display look different base on which face you are seeing it. The book is the same but the way you look at it, changed. Now, I'm not trying to compare your ex boyfriend with the book. What I'm saying here is this, when you change the how you feel about your ex boyfriend, breakup will not affects you. How would you do that? The good news is there is a way to assist you get over your ex boyfriend completely. This technology will make you move on after break up completely, you will be yoyful than you can handle.