Has your relationship just stopped? Are you asking "how can I get back together with my Ex fast?" In order to be successful, it is important that you form a plan, on how you are going to do this.

In order to get back together with your Ex there are a number of different steps to take. Here are a few of the steps from a plan that you might try to help you get back together soon with your Ex. They are not hard, but they will require you to be honest with yourself and your Ex.

1. Second Chances

OK everyone deserves a second chance, right? So it is not as impossible as you might think to make it work, and get back together with your Ex. You must be totally truthful with yourself and not be playing any games, as these are better off avoided.

2. Control

Self control is an important part of any relationship. Learning how to control your feelings like avoiding self pity and just concentrate on those positive parts of your life are the best ways of working on getting back together with your Ex. You never want to appear very needy or desperate- this could cause your love to avoid you even more.

3. Communication

Have polite talks with your Ex. Keep the communication lines open- either text messages, calls or emails. You want to show that you are adult and can still have a friendly relationship with your Ex.

4. Analyze

Most importantly, try and figure out what happened or what went wrong in your relationship. What let to the end? Remember when you both were happy, and start looking around. Find out what caused those arguments and find out how you can improve.

After carefully thinking through these 4 steps, you will begin to see where you could work on your relationship, and how some simple changes may be what is required to get your Ex back quickly.

You can now see how important a plan is to each of these steps and to the whole goal of getting your Ex back. Having a plan of action (and then actually working the plan) will be the best way to get your Ex back. So take action today!