Your marriage has seen better days. You feel that emotionally you and your wife are farther apart than you've ever been. It's worrisome and you're convinced that if you ignore what's happening within your relationship, that your marriage will be doomed and will succumb to divorce. You're right to be concerned when you realize that your wife's feelings for you have changed dramatically. You need to make your wife fall in love with you again so your family can remain together and you can have the fulfilling marriage that you dream of and want. In order to make your wife fall in love with you again , you have to admit your own mistakes. Quite often in a marriage, a woman's feelings will change over time because she feels unrecognized and unheard. If you two have had conflicts, and she's tried to make her point in vain, that's going to impact her feelings. When a woman feels ignored repeatedly and she's convinced her opinion holds no weight in the marriage, she'll give up. You have to apologize to your wife if you've done things wrong. Take ownership for your mistakes. Let her know that she was right and that you were wrong. This will help her to feel validated. Many women also begin to feel under appreciated during the course of their marriage. Although you both have a lot of responsibilities, your wife may carry the bulk of the burden when it comes to certain things. Typically women are looked at as more of the primary care giver for children and they're the ones who tend to all the small, menial tasks around the house. Make an effort, everyday, to let your wife know that you couldn't do it without her. Tell her how invaluable she is and that you feel so fortunate that she's married to you. Also, lend a hand to help her more often. Start dating her again. If you want to make your wife fall in love with you again, you must make her understand that you still desire her as a woman. Spoil her and lavish her with attention. You don't have to take her to expensive restaurants or jet her away on a second honeymoon. Cooking her dinner sometimes will make her feel loved. Also tell her you adore and cherish her every single day. She needs to know that you're just as invested in her and the relationship as you were the day you two married. |