Do you think that you and your husband are going to be joining the sad divorce statistics if you will not take an immediate action? Your relationship problem might be derive from low self esteem. Here is why.
Low self esteem may lead you to arguments over:
Unexpected behavior
- People with low self esteem are very sensitive. They tend to burst even from the smallest thing that their partner have done or said, blaming him for putting them down or not being supportive.
- Unexpected behavior can make your husband distant and emotionally closed. His natural happiness is fading an instead there is a constant עמידה על המשמר four your next anger burst.
Constant need for reassurance
- Maybe it is your husband that is suffering from low self esteem. In this case is you might find yourself frustrated since no matter how much you will tell him that you love him, your husband will need, and will demand (and probable not in a pleasant manner) reassurance after reassurance.
- For people that suffer from low self esteem it is never enough to hear that they are wanted, or loved, and their demands can become annoying for their partner, what leads to the lost of patience and affection.
Jealousy attacks
- People with low self esteem tend to be very jealous, and are in a constant subconscious fear that their partner will leave them for someone else.
- This fear can lead to unpleasant
Not expressing needs or wishes
- People with low self esteem have difficulties talking about what they need or what they really want when it is intimate or controversial.
- Although the professional selling approach for woman is "If she needs to ask, then it is too late", this strategy does not apply to couple relationship. This is true to man as well.
- We sometimes behave so childishly when we expect our partner to discover by himself what is it that we really want, and what is the subtext behind our words, and disappoint when they do not.
Conclusion
Your marriage problems can be solved my easier then you think.
One partner's low self esteem can hurt your relationship, but there are also many other behaviors that can do just that. Click on the link below to learn more about how to fix your marriage.
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