So, you think your girlfriend is cheating. But you can’t catch her!

You know there is someone else. She’s evasive, but she covers it up with a lot of sweetness. When you say you suspect, she cools you down and tells you how much she loves you. She’s not unfaithful – you’re just paranoid.

How does she keep getting away with it?

Many times, the victim of a cheater will know what is happening. They have a gut feeling that tells them their partner is up to no good. They might even have some evidence that points to what the cheater is doing behind their back.

But they will sweep it all under the rug and pretend they don’t know! Is that what your girlfriend is doing to you?

A cheater will have their fun, and then they will come home and do damage control. If you tell your girlfriend you suspect something, or if you confront her and ask her point-black where she has been, she will probably put on a sad front.

She will ask you why you don’t trust her. She will say she’s been faithful to you. She might even provide instances where she COULD have cheated. Where she was offered the CHANCE. But she didn’t take it. See how much she loves you?

A cheating girlfriend is a master of psychological warfare. She will tell you one thing while she does another. She will turn on the charm, take you to bed, make love to you until you think everything is okay. Then she will go about her merry way and do it all again!

If you dare to question her, you’re the one in the wrong. If you have that gut feeling about what she’s doing behind your back, you’re paranoid. And if you spy on her, well – you’re just looking for a way out of a good relationship!

Beware of the girlfriend who tries to soothe things over with affection. She will try to make you run on emotion, not on logic. She will hide her cheating behind a pouty façade and make you believe you might be going crazy. How could you blame such an innocent person for something so terrible?

Don’t let her play you anymore! She’s using your libido and your heart against you. Watch for the signs, and when you see them, don’t let her weasel her way out of them. Get the rock-solid proof so that you can confront her.

But how do you start? How can you get the proof?