There are all kinds of reasons that women cheat on their husbands. Oddly enough most men thinkmy wife is cheating on me to prove a point, which is rarely the case.

Most women aren't looking for opportunities or excuses to cheat on their husbands. In fact, most women have no interest at all in risking their marriages by way of infidelity.

In the past, there has been this feeling that women have this sort of anti-cheating super power. At least, they weren't often caught in the act in the past.

In recent years, women have turned to other men more and more often. But, they aren't cheating in an effort to pay forward some perceived insult. They cheat to fill a void in an otherwise great relationship.

There are a fewcommon reasons women cheatthat include:

• Loneliness
• Depression
• Rebellion
• Risk-taking
• Boredom
• Opportunity
• Lust

Any number of reasons could lead to her cheating but one of the most common reasons is that the other guy dangles a carrot that she is simply powerless to resist.

Just as Superman has Kryptonite, women have a mind-altering weakness to men who make themfeelspecial, important, and wanted. A man that does this to your girl will have her behaving like putty in his hands unless she's getting a heaping helping of all these things from you at home.

If you don't want your wife, girlfriend, or fiance to cheat on you then you need to find a way to continuously make her feel as though you want her, need her, andappreciateher for all the things she is to you and does for you.

You don't have to buy expensive gifts or promise her the moon. Small tokens of appreciation and adoration that cost little or nothing can have the same desired results of making her feel as though she is the most important thing in the world to you.

What are some of the little things you can do that will make your wife feel appreciated (and as a result strengthen her commitment to you and your relationship)?

• Watch the Kleenex-film festival with her.
• Rub her back.
• Hold her hands.
• Talk to her after being intimate.
• Thank her for cooking a nice meal.
• Bring home flowers (not expensive roses but a small bouquet of daisies).
• Call her in the middle of the day just to hear her voice.
• Cook dinner once in a blue moon or treat her to takeout after a busy day.
• Babysit once a week so she can have some time of her own to read, take a bubble bath, or go see a movie with her friends.
• Take her on a date (without the kids).

Little things like these will make a world of difference to her and how she feels about you and your relationship.