If you are being cheated on by your guy you probably find yourself asking "how can I make him stop cheating on me?" often. It's not a question that any woman wants to ask but one that definitely needs to be asked if you really want to save your relationship.

There are things you can do that will greatly reduce if not eliminate altogether the urge your man has to cheat. Don't you wish you could make other women invisible to your husband?

Here are a few things you can do that will place a protective shield, of sorts, around your husband so that other women will have a much harder time attracting him than ever before.

Make Your Home a Haven

If he's in a hurry to rush home every night the odds are good that there will be no time, energy, or inclination for him to cheat. There's no better way tomake your cheating husbandstop than to remove his incentive for doing so.

For the average man escape is that incentive. Make your home the place hewantsto be and he'll find it hard to risk endangering his happy home.

How do you make your home his safe haven?

• Reduce noise and clutter. These are two things that will drive him absolutely insane at the end of a long day of work.
• Give him a break from nagging. Men do not want to be reminded of their shortcomings and nagging to him is you telling him he isn't good enough. He wants to be your hero – someone you respect and admire.
• Become the other woman to add a little excitement and spice. You don't have to do things that go against your grain but a little acting and flirting can add a new level of intensity to his satisfaction and affection for you.

But how will this make him stop cheating on me?

Believe it or not, making him deliriously happy at home and living up to the marriage he always envisioned will help your marriage and his commitment to you more than anything else.

That does not mean you need to become a doormat or leave your opinions behind. It just means that if you have to learn how to choose your battles wisely.

When you learn to give him all the things he needs, some of the things he wants, and show him the respect he needs from you, your marriage will be happier and he will be much less inclined to cheat on you.