Do you find yourself burdened by suspicion that your wife is cheating? Are thoughts like "Do I have a cheating wife?", invading your mind at all hours of the day and night?

If you are continuously fighting a war with suspicion over your wife's extra-marital activities then it's time to dig down deep and get the facts about what is really going on.

Here are a few questions you can ask yourself to see if your suspicions warrant further investigation:

1)   Do you believe she is not telling the truth about where she is going, who she is with, or how many hours she is working?

2)   Has she suddenly gone through a character change that has left you scratching your head to some degree?

3)   Is there someone specific you believe she is cheating on you with?

4)   Have her attitudes and/or interests in or about sex changed in recent weeks?

5)   Have there been suspicious charges on your credit cards or bank statements recently?

If the answers to one or more of the questions above leave you even more convinced that she might be cheating it's time to find out what really is going on. You definitelymighthave a cheating wife on your hands but it's not yet time to confront her about it.

How do You Know for Sure she's Cheating?

There's only one way to eliminate all doubt and know that your wife is cheating on you. It isn't easy. But, it sure beats the heck out of being suspicious all the time. It's catching her in the act and seeing the evidence with your very own eyes.

How do you get that evidence?

Hire a private investigator.This is the most pocketbook painful method but also the easiest for many people in your circumstances. A private investigator has the tools necessary to follow your wife and obtain photographic evidence of her cheating if that is what's going on. It will hurt your wallet but you'll get the results much faster than you could probably manage on your own.

Follow your wife to see where she really is going.This is a little more difficult for the average man. If your wife is nervous she might spot you following her. This also eliminates the buffer that a private investigator provides between you and the guilty party. It's one thing to see photographs after the fact. It's another thing entirely to see it with your own two eyes while it's taking place.

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