In a three year non-scientific survey conducted by Coach Scott( ) of thousands men who enter the many gaychat rooms or message boards with the intent to meet another manfor casual sex now comprise over thirty percent of all these menseeking a no strings attached sexual encounter.

The reasons are many and vary from each person, but he mostcommon comments from men ages 26-50 were (in no particular orderof importance) the need for sex, the need for man-to-man sex,the need to be discreet, the need to not feel like he wascheating (with a women he would feel like he was cheating), theneed to be penetrated, need to be submissive, the need to liveout a fetish and the need to learn from other men.

In over ninety-five percent of the men surveyed, they describedtheir love and relationship with their spouse as excellent. Themen who are in these gay casual encounters are not living in badrelationships. In the opinion of Coach Scott, the wife whoshould be concerned is the one living in a great relationship.