Ladies and Genltemen, why get married if you're not sure, let alone don't mean it.

Did you know that everybody who's jumped the broom in their lifetime and took that plunge never showed their true colors until they've said I do.

I was told by a man who quoted on his view on marriage and he said that most of the times guys don't want to get married, it's basically the women who want to do it and push the man into marriage and another man said he loves to be married and even the idea of marriage itself.

Did you know that: Most women marry with a back up plan and it takes them 5 years to really realize that they have a back up plan to begin with.

In other words: Animal Magnetism

Now what's animal magnetism: Animal magnetism is in its most common usage today which refers to a persons sexual attractiveness or new charisma. But the term originally uniquely signified an entirely different referent; a supposed magnetic fluid or ethereal medium that resided in the bodies animate being.

Now animal magnetism with a being lasts at least 5 years and then they realize later on that's what it is and most animal magnetism doesn't even last that long. That's just what you call lust. It's almost like playing twister for the sweet and fresh nectar of the woman and how the man gets are satisfied physically and sexually by the woman without getting married.

Do not say I do, just don't do it if you don't mean it, do not take the oath of marriage because god is watching and he knows it when you take someone's hand in marriage and you're still doing dirt.

Did you know that: it's a known fact that in a relationship a woman might get her heart broken and can get over a broken heart faster than a man can, but there's no guarantee that a man will ever get over a broken heart depending on the way he feels for a woman and may never recover cause a man might never learn to love again when he makes horrible decisions in love relationships that might lead into marriage but a woman can.

Now don't confuse lust with love and do not seperate love from love because in the beginning of a relationship if you establish what kind of relationship you will be having with a person and you go along with it and then later on it's a different story with the establishment of the rules until someone falls in love, then all bets are off.

But do you really need marriage to define who you really are? I don't think so because marriage is supposed to be something you really want to go through, it's not something to paint a picture of something that looks perfect as if it's a happy life with a nice picket fence just to make it look good for others so stop living your life for other people. Now on that note;this is where the engagement ring comes in on a subject of marriage cause you need to do something to close the deal of proposing marriage and then say "will you marry me".

Now it's up to the person to agree with the whole marriage thing and taking it serious and it has to be between those two and not everyone else. So why is it that so many people are willing to write their own vows and not their own rules and joining someone for all eternity cause some people get scared to take that plunge by playing it safe and not looking at it as if it's not a scary situation and then finally realizing that you and that person might not be right for each other and admitting to not joining someone for all eternity and being stuck with each other forever and not realizing that this is who they'll be with for a lifetime until death do them part instead of waking up one day and figured that you've made a terrible mistake being with that person.

But some say that they're not ready because of their partying ways and status and a another man quoted to me that he's ready because it can't just be about fun and glory and you gotta settle down sometime. If a man is still a player, he wouldn't think about doing the marriage thing and it wouldn't even matter to him whether he gets married or not because he might never take the plunge into marriage, not ever!

So when it comes to taking that plunge and jumping the broom, you have to be really ready before you say those words.