Another common beginner’s mistake during the love making session is what I call the “What’s-the-rush” syndrome. After the long wait most men are so excited about having two girls in their bed that they lose perspective... they feel they’re the “directors” and insist on showing the way of the action, quickly taking the girls from one act or position to the next in attempt to experience "every aspect" of his fantasy in one single session. Mind you, this is very short-sighted for many reasons…Guys, you should keep the following points in mind:

• It’s silly to try everything at once. A threesome is not a Smorgasbord; it’s a seven-course meal. You have to savor each course to the fullest and you’ll enjoy it more that way than trying to fill your plate with a little bit of this and a little bit of that.

• Bear in mind that your invited friend can have a man any time she wants one. She didn’t come for a penis, (sorry guys, that’s just the way it is) she also came for the pussy. No, I’m not saying that she wants to have the pussy. However highly likely she is curious about experimenting with a female and a threesome gives her a safe and protected environment without having to think that her “lesbian” desires are wrong. If the man is dominantly directing the flow, the experience will become more of a pain than a pleasure.

• The man should allow himself to learn about how to really please a woman. Make sure that you allow the women to exercise their own pace and technique or intuition. Watch them kiss, touch and speak to each other. Women make love to each other how they WISH men would make love to them. Without the man interposing his own needs, he can learn what women really want.

• Your new friend can find a new couple much easier than you can recruit another woman. Allow her to do as she pleases and give her whatever she wants. If you try to impose your agenda on her pleasure, her search for paradise certainly will take her elsewhere.

• The evening will progress slower and will be more fun if the man doesn’t attempt to become the recreational organizer of the evening. The man should guide the women to each other, watch more than participate, give more than take, learn more than teach. This is the secret that will make him be appreciated by the women and that will reward him with more and more threesomes.

Suzy Bauer

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