Do you think your husband is cheating? It’s a sad reality that most women believe their husbands are innocent when really, they aren’t. There are signs of a cheater, even when you think everything looks fine. Here are five signs you might never have guessed would lead you to a discovery:

He’s so much more helpful lately! He does the laundry as soon as he sees the basket is full. Sometimes he even does a load of laundry before it really needs to be done, just to help keep the house tidy. Ask yourself: What prompted this new attitude? It looks like a sweet gesture, but it’s actually him hiding the scent of another woman’s perfume in his clothes!

He knows where you are all the time. He calls more often, and pays much more attention to where you are going and what you are doing. He’s interested! Is he being a good husband, or is he keeping track of your whereabouts so you won’t run into him when he’s having a rendezvous with his new lover?

Is he cleaning up his act? He goes to a tanning salon and buys new clothes. He even gets his hair trimmed, just the way you like it! Is he trying to look good for you – or is he doing it for someone else? A man loves to impress a new lover, but he doesn’t necessarily try to impress his wife.

He sent you flowers! They went to your office, where all your coworkers gushed over what a delightful husband you have. A week later, he surprised you with a lovely necklace that you couldn’t wait to try on. What’s gotten into him? What’s made him so loving all of a sudden? It might not be affection – it might be good, old-fashioned guilt. He’s seeing someone else, and he’s feeling bad about it.

He’s trying out all kinds of new things in bed. Your old marriage is suddenly filled with spice! There are new positions, new words, new foreplay, even new toys. He’s more adventurous than ever. But where is he learning those new tricks? And are you just a practice playground?

A cheating man usually won’t neglect his wife or push her aside. On the contrary! You might get more attention than ever, thanks to his guilt. The secret things you never dreamed would point to an affair suddenly turn into flashing neon signs. Don’t be fooled – keep digging for more.