The wife of today has more responsibilities. She has to look after the home and the children. She also works and contributes to the revenue and all this with a good spirit as much as possible.

At the same time, wives have to make sacrifice. They try to maintain a good balance between marriage, relationship and work. All this lead to depression and exhaustion.

Now, if you are the husband, you need to understand her and do your best tokeep your wife happy. However, happiness is something that depends on her mainly. Therefore, you can not force her to be happy but do not make her feel miserable either.

Men and women being different do not have the same needs. Therefore, you need to realize that your wife's needs are different from yours and vice versa. That is why you should both talk about that.

It is good to know that men have sometimes completely different point of view than women on matters like emotional things. Both do not feel nurtured in the same way in a relationship.

There are books on these subjects that can help you have a better perspective. Even if you feel that you probably have an equal way of doing things, you may find that it is not the case. The wife prefers and adapts to certain functions while different functions suit the husband. If you want a healthy marriage, you need to make your spouse understand the help that he or she will get in reading books that deal with such topics. One person only can not do the whole work. The two of you should try to work together and definitely, you will see a change.

Moreover, you can change the way you approach your partner to deal with certain things.