Q: What is your largest sex organ?
A: Your skin.

Remember: "The whole body can be an erogenous zone, given the right touch, mood and setting."

In order to become a real pro, the first thing I'll recommend you to do is to receive a full body massage yourself. Make an appointment with an experienced professional so that you know you will receive skilled care, with no sexual expectations or motivation. (Get personal recommendations) This is about treating yourself, learning to receive. The experience of receiving, as in all aspects of life, is also a great education for when it is your turn to give.

When preparing for your seduction night, it will help if you have a firm bed, cushions a mattress on the floor and soft sheets or towels. It's key that the three of you are comfortable. If you have the possibility of getting a massage table then even better. It'll be very useful for future seduction nights and will enhance also your sex life. We have one and it has worked for us incredibly. They're not expensive, you can get one for less than $250.00.

Make sure you have a variety of sensual massage oils. Warm your oils by standing the bottles in warm water or the microwave. You will need oil or lotion so that your hands don't pull the skin and to make the experience as pleasurable as possible. Using oils it's just another excuse to undress fully.

Once your friend is naked (at least her back) take a few deep breaths to centre yourself and apply your chosen oil blend to your warmed hands and then softly rest them on their upper back. (you are at their head) Start with a long, slow, oiling stroke. Don't be afraid to move your hands away to add more oil as a moment without contact can increase anticipation of the next delightful touch.. or perhaps you prefer to drip the oil on their expectant skin! If so make sure it's warm!

Remember: this is going to be a 4 hands massage! You must focus on her back and your wife or girlfriend should focus on her legs. This is less threatening for her and she'll feel more relaxed. Start with light pressure and increase it. Travel down the centre of the back from neck to tail then let your hands slide to either side and ease back up to the top. Repeat this type of stroke many times. Avoid direct pressure on the spine. Now vary the pressure, speed and types of stroke. Use the spread of your palms, fingertips and thumbs, knuckles and forearms. Slow down. Do it again and again Focus on each part of the back: shoulders, muscles along the sides of the spine, lower back. The inside of her elbows. This part of her body is very, very sensitive. Start on the inside of her elbows and work your way outward.

At the same time the female on the seducing couple should start doing her feet. Her toes. Massage them if you're a bit daring Kiss them. Nibble them. Hold them close to your face Let her know you really like her feet. Oil her legs. Give lots of attention to her inner thighs, hips and feet, while your husband grabs the muscles on top of her shoulders and back of her neck.

Dry your hands a little and massage her scalp, and tug her hair gently. Let her feel your four hands all over her back and body. If you feel she'll not object, remove the towel on top of her buttocks and let your wife start gently massaging her ass. Communicate pleasure or discomfort with words, sounds or signals. Leave aside all other conversation!

Make sure neither of you touches her pussy yet! But feel free to spread her ass and massage her between her legs and in her inner thighs. Communicate pleasure or discomfort with words, sounds or signals. Leave aside all other conversation.

After a while of massaging her, she'll be putty in your hands. Ask her to turn around and quickly cover her pussy with a towel leaving only her breasts uncovered. Again The male in the seducing couple should start massaging her arms, avoiding her breasts, while the female on the seducing couple massages her feet and legs. Let him smooth oil down over her chest, breasts and belly down the centre and up the sides as on the back. Including arms, armpits and hands some more!

While you're doing her upper body let your wife move around her legs and slowly approach her legs underneath the towel. Carefully remove the towel and continue to massage her legs approaching her pussy.

This will be a vital transition! (Specially if your wife or girlfriend has never been with another woman). It's time for her to massage her pussy. Even if neither of the females has had a lesbian experience, your invited friend will feel more comfortable having her being close to her pubis than having him. By letting her massage her inner thighs and pussy both women will feel more sexually comfortable with each other.

This might feel awkward at first but before you know it, you'll feel very comfortable touching her pussy while your husband massages her tits.

Suzy Bauer

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