If you want to stop your divorce but your spouse has suggested that you need to get one, this article can help you. Going through divorce can be a lot of heartache and stress. You will go through legal hassles, guilty feelings, and loneliness. If you are too overwhelmed it may be hard to do anything about it.



With this article, you will find 3 tips on how you can stop your divorce from happening and save yourself from all the pain and suffering you would endure.



1.Choose your battles. Don't fight over what your spouse says. Just learn to go with the flow. Many times married couples argue because they no longer care to see eye to eye, or just because they no longer know how to communicate with each other. If you just agree with your spouse when he mentions a divorce and don't try to make the conversation into a big ordeal, you may find that your spouse will stop pursuing the idea of a divorce. When you fight, it will just re-affirm his decision that he was right and you no longer can be married to each other happily.



2. Concentrate on yourself and find happiness where you can. If you pick up a hobby, start going to the gym, or even take a night class to pursue something that makes you happy, your spouse will start to re-think about all of the things he could be missing out on if you were divorced. This may change his mind and convince him to give things one more try. Don't try to bribe your spouse with presents though to try to make them happy. Just work on making yourself happy and the atmosphere in your home will become more positive resulting in a pleasant place to be.



3. Take a look at what has worked in the past and try to build on that. Even slight changes can make the difference to cause one person to change their opinion of a certain matter. Humans are very complex in nature and often times it is the little things that will make a difference in the bigger picture. If you go with the flow and do not see any changes, you should then rethink your plans. It is possible that your spouse just likes to argue. From the words of the well known Grochu Marx "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. But after that, don't be a fool and try something new."



A divorce can be a painful ordeal that can have a huge impact on the rest of your life. If you have the desire to stop your divorce from happening you should avoid arguing with your spouse, stay as happy as you can, and pay close attention to the things that are working in your relationship and try to build on that. Hopefully, as time goes by, your spouse and you will find a way to work things out and have a happy life together once again. Millions of couples have found the way to save their marriage. You can too!