Do you want to work on your relationship and do you need a couple pointers to get you started? Then read about how I have changed and saved my relationship! I am no love doctor, so don't expect a quick solution to your marital problems. I am just a guy that learned to listen to reason and made a decision to start doing things differently.
Find out how I saved my relationship.
How did I do it?I made the decision to act. Searching and reading anything that I thought could help me. I will show you what I found most usefull later on, but first I would like to explain to you the things I have learned that changed the way she looks at me now.
ARGUE BUT MAKE UP AFTER
We used to argue a little bit every now and then. Minor disagreements that would get us fired up to a point where we had a relationship to save. Those moments came more often. What I started doing, was making up quickly after arguing. And I don't mean sex. Just talk to her in a normal fashion and acknowlegde my part of the problem. After some time she started doing the same thing and now we both enjoy a more relaxed relationship. Do we still argue? Oh yes we do! But guess what? The making up after is better than it ever was. And yes, now I do mean the sex. But more on that later.
THINGS WE CAN DO TOGETHER
Everybody is talking about spending quality time together. We have tried that in a number of ways. And you know what worked for us? Sports. We just started running together. Three times a week we are working out and taking time off from our computers. And during these runs we get the chance to talk. That gives us more time in the evening to spend some more quality time, if you know what I mean. I know now that this a great way to work on my relationship. And I am sure that you will find something that you can do together.
SOCIALIZE
Do you feel sometimes you should get out more? Meet more people and have new friends? We did. The only people we visited were our parents and a couple old friends from school. We had a poor social life because we did not get out of the house. What did we do? We started investing in our own social network. I started coaching my son's soccer team and she joined a women's business club. We felt great meeting new people and we learned to enjoy socializing. How did that help save our relationship? Well spending time with other people will give more to talk about when you do your weekly run together.
GETTING PHYSICAL
The hard work was paying off and we both felt that the relationship could be saved. That was the time for me to work on my love making skills. And I did just that. Let me just tell you that I now know how to fully please my wife when the lights go out! And it has given me a whole other perspective on my new and improved relationship. It just feels great to give her that much more.
How you can do it?
There are a number of ways for you to work on your relationship. And my way will surely not be your way, since we are all different. But there is something I did that I know will work for you. Take some action. Do something to go forward and make a chance saving your relationship. You know you want to, but you don't know how to.
What I know is what worked for me. And I only used one solution out there. I recommend it to you because it handed me my pointers for saving my relationship and there were a lot to choose from in this course.
So go to and select the ones that will work for you.
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Good luck and have fun!