Do you need an easy way to tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you? You’ve probably got a feeling she’s been catting around with someone else. Watch her very carefully and you can see the signs, right there, written all over her face.

Lying about her infidelity takes a lot of concentration. She has a lot of half-truths and outright lies to keep straight, and once she’s tripped up on one of them, the rest will fall like dominoes.

Watch her body language when you ask her something that makes her uncomfortable. If she crosses her arms or moves across the room, she’s trying to put distance between you.

Her facial expressions might be off-kilter, too. If she smiles when she should frown, or frowns instead of smiling, she’s probably lying. She will act the way you expect, but her emotions might not take the same route.

She will find something to keep her hands busy. If you’re sitting at the kitchen table talking about that new guy at work, she might hop up at that moment and decide it’s time to do the dishes. She will fiddle with paperwork. She will even try to make YOU get your hands busy, so you won’t look at her so intently.

Watch her eye contact. She might turn away from you while she’s speaking, in order to keep you from seeing the emotion on her face. On the other hand, she might look earnestly into your eyes in an effort to make you believe what she’s saying.

Listen closely to what she DOESN’T say. If she’s lying, she will pause more often than usual. She will stumble over words. She might come up with one version of a story, then ten minutes later add something to it, or tell you something else that doesn’t mesh.

She will ask you “What?” when you know she heard you, just to buy herself some time to think about her next response. If you call her on something that doesn’t sound right, she will tell you that you must have been mistaken.
She didn’t lie! You just heard her wrong.

Yeah…right.

If you know the signs of a lie, you can catch her in the act. You can immediately recognize what she’s lying about and add that to your list of things that make you suspicious. Once you know the signs of a liar, you can move on to the signs of a cheater…and now you will spot the signs much more easily!