You need to take into consideration that a woman can get a “wham-bam-thank-you-Ma’am” anytime she feels like it. She doesn’t need you for that. What she’ll always appreciate is the slow, tender love she is missing somewhere else. Her main attraction to a threesome may be the possibility of having the soft tender attention she has always dreamt of. The shy giggles; the long, lingering kisses; the soft, tender touches; the gentle, probing investigation of unexplored spaces; the tranquil discovery of unimagined new pleasures; and the slow, building stimulation of a real seduction.

My advice is to follow the female pace. Remember your friend didn’t join you for a quickie! The best method to make her come back is a long, candle-lit, romantic evening with lots of sweet nothings, dabbling caresses, prolonged kisses, relaxed cuddling and warm, all-accepting shared love (3). One of the reasons females fantasize about other women is because of the soft tender feelings they know females are able to provide. An Adonis Trio (FFM) is the perfect opportunity for her to experience those feelings without feeling uncomfortable about the fact that she’s involved in “lesbian” behavior.

In my experience I've realized that most women are bi-curious. If you provide the possibility of a non threatening experience, where she can explore the soft and tender touch of another woman and the warmth and strength of a man, she’ll be delighted. Once and for all: the real secret for successful Adonis Trio is to focus on your friend, not on your own pleasure. Your pleasure is a by-product of providing pleasure to your friend. An Adonis Trio will always be more enjoyable when seen as a selfless act of providing pleasure to the invited friend.

I’ve found that this type of behavior also influences your love making as a couple. Because your husband or steady partner, being aware of how to deal with two women, he also learns how to deal better with his own woman while you’re just by yourselves. So as an extra tip, help him learn what you like while you’re experiencing a threesome and he’ll improve his lovemaking to you.

Keep an Eye On Your Partner Too!

I know I've told you already that focusing as much as possibly in your invited guest is critical to the success of your Adonis Trio, however I also need to mention the following:

No matter how ready you are for your first threesome, the fact that your significant other will see you having sex with another woman might still make her uncomfortable, so here's the number one rule which absolutely...must be observed... to keep jealousy under control:

Keep an Eye On Her Too! Let her see that you're enjoying your threesome but always make her feel important loved and supported. At the end of the day it's because of her that you are living your fantasy, so KEEP HER IN MIND!

Suzy Bauer