How would you like to change your sexual frustration into sexual bliss?

Instead of you having to 'chase' your wife, how about you doing the running for a change? Running to the bedroom, that is.

Now you may be sitting there reading this and saying to yourself, "This guy doesn't understand just how hopeless my sexual relationship is with my wife."

Begging your pardon...yes I do!   In the last few months the sexual relationship with my wife, of many years, has improved substantially!  Read on to understand why there is hope for you too.

You're reading this article for some help - right?  Well, let's start by finding out what you already know...

Quick question: What's your wife's most important sex organ?

"Of course, it could be one of several", you say.

If you - like I used to do - guessed somewhere below your wife's waist...WRONG!

If you guessed her chest area...WRONG!

Actually, your wife's dominating, most important sex organ is above her beautiful neck.

That's right!  Your wife's critical sex organ is her mind - where everything is processed. That's where her emotions, feelings, sense of security, sense of worth, and of course love are all determined.  It all happens in her mind!

Believe me gentlemen, if you're placing emphasis at chest level or crotch level,you're way too low.

If you're under the impression that bringing her vagina to orgasm is the "'end-all", no wonder you're suffering from sexual frustration.  Your focus is misplaced.

Your wife's mind is your doorway to great sex.

When your wife's emotions are all properly aligned, she feels happy, secure, and truly loved.  Get this part right first...then you can delight in bringing her beautiful body to an orgasm - and you'll both enjoy it more.

So, the good news in all of this is that you canstop searching for that "super secret" sexual technique that will finally cause your wife to constantly want sex with you.It doesn't exist!

If you want more sex with your wife, start educating yourself  on what to do and what not to do concerning her emotional state!

When your wife has a comfortable sense of well being, knows you truly love her for who she is as a person and not just for her body and she knows and believes that of all the billions of women in the world, you want only her, then you'll probably get as much sex as you can handle!

One more quick question:  What does it mean to romance your wife?

Hint:  It has nothing to do with flowers, candy, dinner out or the like.

Unfortunately, that's what many men consider to be romancing their wife - which is why they really do need help!

Now, please don't be embarrassed or angry if you didn't answer these correctly. I didn't get them right either until I did the research for myself.

To romance your wife is to make her feel special - like she's the most special women in the world to you.  To romance your wife is for you to still "court" her - as if you're still "chasing" her to win her heart.

These are a couple of elements of what your lady considers romance and if you'll be more of a romantic in just these two ways, your lovely wife will respond.

You see...when a husband knows how to please his wife emotionally and to romance her, she will just naturally want to please him.  That's how women are "wired".

Ok, what I want you to realize now is how easy this all is once you have the right information.  Quite possibly, you've already got some good ideas for making things better in your own marriage in just the few minutes you've been reading this.  And that's the thing - having access to the right information can have a energizing effect on all aspects of your marriage - especially the sexual frequency part.

Consider this:  The fact that you're sexually deprived, indicates your wife is equally deprived and probably just as frustrated.

The odds are in your favor.  With the right information, whatever problems you're experiencing in your marriage can be turned into wonderful sexual bliss.  You just need to get the information and put in the effort.

Which would you rather have? Both of you so horney that you're all but "cross-eyed"?  Or, the both of you steaming up the bedroom; bathroom; living room and everywhere else you can think of?

Copyright 2008, Article by Robert Lewis of CharmYourWife.com. Permission is granted to reprint this article ONLY  if the resource box pointing to our websites is included with it.