LIFE- THE WAY TO LIVE

Imagine, god appears in front of us and v r given a choice of regaining some part of our life. What would v choose?

Most of us without a 2nd thought will opt for ourchildhood-the most happiest part of  our life.

Most of us think- y should v grow up? Y couldn’t v remain as children? Cant v just live as children? And many more

Just think what reasons lie behind this-

The first reason which comes to our mind would be stress, cannot manage work tensions and family life.

You could enjoy life as much as your childhood by proper planning.

Observe nature and its intelligence.

Have u ever observed an ant? Undoubtedly each one of us would have. But wouldn’t have observed closely or tried learning from it.

v    Whenever obstacles are placed in front of an ant, it is so flexible that it goes around under or above it. R u flexible in giving quality time to ur family?

v    During summer it plans for winter. When everything is going well r u planning for odd times? Or r u lost in joy?

v    During winter it waits patiently for summer. During hard times r u wise enough to develop quality of patience and have an understanding of problems.

v    It never invalidates its strengths, however small creature it is. R u giving ur best at the present moment? R u involved completely in your endeavour?

v    It operates as a team-{together empowering to achieve more} and builds an ant hill which is an engineering feat. Can u drop the “I” in “u”? can u consider every incident as joyous and rejoice the present?

v    Ants have the humility to follow their leaders. R u humble enough to follow the rules of life

Other reason y v r unhappy is that we get“hurt”

A child gets hurt when he is physically hurt by someone. But v grownups will get hurt 4 almost all possible silly things in life. Like a stranger commenting on u, a rough boss in office etc and many more.

Let us think y do v get hurt? Generally someone scolds u, u get hurt. Think of the reasons, which actually hurt u. is it the person who scolds u? r the mere word he used to scold u? r the way he scolds u? most of us will land up in any one of the reason.

But the actual reason is how u take it or perceive it.

Let me quote an example here,

Madan mohan malviya, founder of benaras hindu university, during its construction had financial crisis. He went to all rich people through out India to collect donations.he even went to nizam of hyd for funds.

But our nizam didn’t like the word hindu in BHU and he roared with anger and took off his foot ware and flung them at malviya.

Imagine how big insult it was?

But malviya took the foot ware and auctioned the foot ware. As iot was nizam’s foot ware many attended the auction and price went up. Nizam felt it would be an insult if his foot ware to be bought by some one for a pittance. He sent the attenders to bid the price.

Finally he sold the foot ware to king for a huge amount.

Are u taking things like malviya? So instead of getting embarrassed by the incident, move on in life, by taking it in a positive way.

Did u get disheartened ,  thinking that u r not able to succeed in any of your tasks.

Look at a one year old, does he thinks of how many times he falls?

He still manages to get up and tries to walk. That’s how he learns walking. Continue trying till u succeed

Let me tell u about colonal sanders. He is the founder of ketunchy fried chicken, the most famous snacks in America. At 63 yrs of age, he went around with a recipe to many hotels. But none of the owners showed any interest to even try that recipe. He went to 1006 hotels, but finally was given a chance, thus creating the legacy of KFC.

Build up the self confidencein u and sustain till u succeed.

Perform your duty, don’t expect results. Meaning to say live in present. Involve urself completely in your activities.

Plan for the future

Learn from the past

Enjoy the present

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