What happened to the memories of the good times when you laughed and enjoyed life? Remember the way it was before you lost control and messed up your life, what happened? Is that thing tormenting you, or is it still bothering you? Yes or no?

If your answer is yes, because of your actions, your life is like a loose puzzle with some missing pieces; now it will be a difficult task to try to put your life back together with missing pieces, isn't it? I would like to encourage you to avoid getting out of control, because it would take a very long time to get back on the right track, however, if you're already involved without control, this book will certainly deal with the problem.

How about this:

Your spouse left you, your children are not talking to you, your friends distance themselves from you, all because of this thing called out of control that you got yourself involved in. Maybe that's not you, how about this, you drink liquor like water, and whenever that happened, nobody could control you; you are like a nuclear bomb with the switch already flipped and ready to go off at any time, you are out of control.

Do you see yourself in any of these scenarios? No. Okay try this one, you have a little money, so you think you are all that, taking advantage of the less fortunate and thinking they are beneath your standard, but guess what, you are also out of control, and the memories of what you have done will visit you one day. However, control is your friend and out of control is your enemy, so please avoid your enemy at any cost, and keep this in mind, After God, you control your life.

If your answer was no, how about some questions? Is your attitude pleasing in the eyes of God? Are you faithful when it comes to the things of God? Do you give, as you know you should? You still think tithing is a money gimmick that churches created, so that's why you don't participate. You think it's okay to use foul language, and then use a scripture like, we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God to cover the fact that you are sinning.

How about these questions? When did you last tell your spouse "I love you" and meant it, not just to make her or him feel good for that moment? Did you hug your children today? Did you call a friend lately just to say I appreciate you in my life? When a fellow brother or sister in Christ needs your help, do you avoid them or run to their rescue. Do you try your best to assist them in any way that you could?

How about some mind questions? What are you thinking right now, good things or bad things? Do you smile in a person's face while thinking evil thoughts in your mind against them? When you go to church, and the preacher in speaking, what are you really saying in your mind? If we know what you're saying, would we change the way we thought you were or not? You say that you are a smart and intelligent person, are you really or just pulling our legs just to get by? If you see yourself in any of these, this is how you counteract out of control. You must have,

Lis for love. The international secret to a happy life.

Iis for interaction. You must communicate to be successful in life.

Fis for friendly. A mean person will never achieve happiness in life.

Eis for enjoyment. You only have one life.