If you are a glowing mother-to-be, you're probably thinking about doing some shopping for your bundle of joy. But in these hard times a baby may seem impossibly expensive! Here's some of my money-saving suggestions.

First tip: Try breastfeeding your baby. It is a lot cheaper than buying formula. There are no special tools or accessories you need, unless you plan on working after your baby is born. Then you may need to purchase a pump and bottles, but those can be found second-hand (just replace all rubber parts and sanitize the rest). It doesn't hurt that the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends breastfeeding your baby for at least a year or longer. Don't wait to make this choice until after your baby is born because the first time breastfeeding is not always easy and you may need support. Check out La Leche League or visit my website at TheNursingCircle.com to get started in the right direction.

Second tip: Don't fall prey to Pottery Barn's definition of what a baby's life looks like. They'll say you need that $2,000 crib with the antique birdie quilt and all the wall hangings to match! Those things are beautiful, but you're baby isn't coming into this world for the nursery. The baby is coming to be part of your family. So look around your home and appreciate what it already has. An old chair is a great changing table and your closet can be baby's closet, too.  Third tip: Forget about a crib altogether! Consider this, your baby can sleep right beside you in your bed. (How many of you just gasped?) Letting your baby sleep beside you is commonly referred to as "the family bed" or "co-sleeping". Co-sleeping is safe if you take proper safety measures. Do your own research – here are some good places to start: BabyCenter.com, La Leche League, and .

Fourth tip: Don't buy any clothes, toys, or accessories until after your baby is born. Remember, you're going to get a lot of presents! I guarantee when you're baby is one-month-old you'll look at the stack of newborn clothing he just outgrew and wonder if he even wore them all! Other common gifts you'll receive are stuffed animals, hats, baby toiletries, towels, and blankets. Account for all your gifts before you spend your money. One thing youshouldinvest in is thank you cards!

Fifth tip: When you do start shopping for baby clothes and furniture, start by going to second-hand or consignment stores that have baby/children items. If they don't have what you're looking for, ask if they have a waiting list for that item. In general, you can save 30% or more and the quality is usually good. Then, when your baby outgrows his clothes, consider consigning to make some of your money back.

Sixth tip: Buy the cheapest car seat. All car seats have to meet the same safety standards, whether they cost $50 or $500. The extra money you spend is just for fancy fabric.

Seventh tip: If you plan to be a stay-at-home-mom (or dad), consider using cloth diapers. The big cost is in the initial investment, but good-condition used ones can be found on eBay for as low as $1 each. Check out for reviews and cleaning instructions.

Eighth and final tip: Follow your doctor's orders! By keeping yourself healthy, you can help avoid costly complications during pregnancy and after birth. Plus, your baby will thank you!