Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools for success.

If you want to be successful here are some tips you can apply:

1. Stop thinking and feeling as if you're a failure, because you're not. How can others accept you if YOU can't accept yourself?
2. Concentrate on inner beauty. When you see models on TV don't dwell on self pitying. Self acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great abs.
3. The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Don't feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed on something. There's always a next time.
4. Success results from inner stability, personality development determination and perseverance. It comes from self confidence, self appreciation and self esteem.
5. Set meaningful and achievable goals.
6. Little things mean BIG to other people. Start practicing little things like saying "hi" or "hello", greeting someone "good day" . Even telling somebody like "hey, I love your tie!" . People will appreciate these little things.
   When we're being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.

We should always remember that there's no such thing as ‘over night success'. Its always a wonderful feeling to hold on to the things that you already have now, realizing that those are just one of the things you once wished for.

A very nice quote says that "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." We are all here to learn our lessons. Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, officemates, neighbors are our teachers.

When we open our doors of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures,we increase our chances to head to the road of success. Learn the lesson, let it go and move on. Keep trying and you will be successful.

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