Relationship Advice for Women: Is Your Guy A Loser?

In a perfect world, women would have no problem finding the ideal guy. He'd be good looking has a sense of humor, is madly in love with his significant other, and would never try to argue back or pick a fight. However, we live in the real world. And in this place called 'reality,' relationships like that are rare. While there might be a number of guys out there whom we can classify as 'decent', there are also plenty of duds lurking about.

Here are the top identified characteristics of loser guys, so you can steer clear of them before they come near you and accidentally sweep you off your feet with their antics.

The Abuser

This kind of guy is bad news. He can start out as a gentleman and tell you he'll never do or say anything to hurt you again after he does. But, the truth of the matter is, he won't change. If a guy has a nasty temper and begins to show inclinations toward abuse (either physically or verbally), you should get out of that relationship at once.

Abusive guys start out nice and you probably won't be able to spot them until they're in abuse mode. This usually comes out when your relationship turns serious and he starts to become possessive and aggressive. If he has hit you once, don't believe him when he says he won't do so again. He will and you should leave. /?e=kevin121554@yahoo.com" /?e=kevin121554@yahoo.com

The Meantime Guy

Or, as most women like to call him, the "I Have No Idea What I Saw In Him" guy. He may seem all right at first. That is, you started going out with him because he seemed like a nice person and he was available. However, when it boils down to the nitty gritty of the relationship itself, you discover that your relationship really has no strong foundation. You have nothing to talk about and share no interests in common. Worse, you cringe when people see you together in public. It's not really him that's the problem. It's the basis of the relationship - very shallow.

Why are you still with this guy, again? End it now.

The Self-Absorbed Guy

This guy only thinks of himself and does not care about your opinions. He believes that you will never equal him and that you should just pay attention to fulfilling HIS needs (making yours only secondary and, therefore, unimportant). He does not want you to share his level and it will be futile to try to make him think in your favor. You're worth more than this kind of treatment. You should be with someone who shares the limelight with you and listens to what you have to say. /?e=kevin121554@yahoo.com" /?e=kevin121554@yahoo.com

The Suddenly Distant Guy

Girls should watch out for this kind of guy because he can never stay put in one place, or in one relationship, for too long. Sure, some guys start out great but, then, all of a sudden, with no obvious reason, he becomes distant and acts all weird. Slowly you grow apart. You bang your head against the wall trying to explain his behavior and what might have triggered it.

Often, your paranoia will lead you to believe that something is wrong with you. There isn't. He is the problem. If he won't share his feelings and problems with you, it's not likely that your relationship will flourish any further. End it while it's still bearable. You will only be dragging the occurrence of the inevitable (a breakup) if you hold on and try to convince yourself that things will eventually change. /?e=kevin121554@yahoo.com" /?e=kevin121554@yahoo.com