When I was a teenager, life seemed much easier and harmless compared to the life a teenager faces these days. Back in those days, we took off on our bikes in the morning and didn't come back until the evening for supper. Our days were filled with cycling, swimming, fishing, berry picking, etc. and there were no cell phones for constant contact, nor was there a need.  We had no money and did not notice-the things we did came with no cost. I never appreciated just what freedom we had and what fun we experienced, until I raised two teenagers of my own and became painfully aware of how life and the generations have changed.

Today, no one let's their children out of their sight unless they know exactly where they are going and what they are going to do and importantly so. With the recent increase in child abductions and sadly child murders, parents live in fear that this could happen to their child if they aren't vigilant at all times. Even living with all the modern electronic conveniences doesn't ensure safety either, if the child is not truthful about their whereabouts.

I remember as a early teen sitting at a piano teacher's home and staring at the telephone pole which the night before had been hit by a young driver going 120miles per hour. Gossip had it that there wasn't much left of the car or the young man and probably so. It really struck me that one so young had so little value for life that he would chance his and loose the race. Now a days with drugs on scene, we hear many reports of teenagers who place little or no value on life and not only decide to go on a shooting rampage in which their life is lost, but  usually many innocent lives as well.

Yes, drugs have certainly changed life, in and out of the home, and not for the better, I'm sad to say. Yet in this age of two parent working couples, just how do you keep a close rein in on your children and what do you do if you do suspect your children are doing things you don't approve of and possible drugs? There are no easy answers.

Sudden change in mood or behavior with increased anger or irritability could signal drug abuse.  Parents should watch for lack of interest in family activities and disrespectful and abusive language and behavior.
Teens with drug problems show a lack of responsibility for chores and homework and look for ways to skip out of school with any given chance. Look for outward material signs such as rolling papers, baggies and remnants of drugs such as seeds, etc. Also watch such teens for loss of appetite and lack of concern for personal hygiene or appearance.

If you are uncertain as to what your child is doing and want a close hand view, consider a hidden camera. Most are easy to use and come disguised as common household items to prevent any suspicion. They can come resembling alarm clocks, air fresheners, smoke detectors, clocks and many more ways and shapes and the high powered models can transmit up to 2500 feet.

Personal security companies offer a variety of hidden cameras to meet your needs.  Whatever you do,  get the help you need to make sure your child lives a long and productive life. There are a lot of dangers out there today and our children do not always make the right or wise decision. If you feel a hidden camera would help in your situation, what is stopping you?