Looking after the child in a good manner is still one of the biggest challenge for the parents. Many parents around the world wonder that how their child has become stubborn or notorious or depressed etc. though they looked after their children very well. Here are 3 most common mistakes which we commit.

1) Don't Throw the Burden of Desires on Children's Shoulders: My child, you have to become Doctor or Engineer or Lecturer or Industrialist or Army Officer etc. etc. because we want you to become this because it's the question of our pride. But is this right to throw your big ambitions on the shoulders of your little children? This is very serious issue which needs to be considered by everyone. I have seen lots of children killing their utter desires just to fulfill the dreams of their parents, it's not right. Each person of this world has different type of talent. So instead of throwing the burden of your ambitions on them, you must recognize their talent and advise them to choose their career according to that. By choosing the career of their choice, they will definitely blossom like a flower and shine like a mighty sun. All the great persons of the world have become great because some one else or they themselves recognized their hidden talent.

2) Don't Beat Them: Most of the parents think that beating is very necessary for children because it creates fear in their heart but it's not true in fact they become stubborn by beating and scolding. Unless we become the good friend of our children we can't understand their real problem of them. Every child has some problem but it becomes too difficult to judge their problem if we don't maintain friendly relation with them.

3) Don't Become Hitler At Home: You don't have to go out. Exams are coming just don't do anything except study. Leave your all friends because friends are useless. Don't watch T.V., don't play because it is the wastage of time. This type of behavior is not good for children they really become psychologically sick. These types of limitations really put negative effect on their mind. Outdoor games are as important as study because it develops them physically and friends are also the important part of their life, children do discuss their personal problems with them which make them feel comfortable.

All the parents must avoid committing these mistakes so that they will be able to develop their children mentally and physically and also help them become successful persons in the life.