What Is Boudoir Photography?

Historically, the term "Boudoir" was used to describe a lady's dressing room.  In the early 1980's "Boudoir photography" was first used to refer to a type of intimate photography. Nowadays, it's quite popular for women to have Boudoir photographs done, usually to surprise that special someone in their life.  Boudoir photography sessions can be as varied as each individual.  Each person has their unique opinion of what is sensual and beautiful and each photography session and resulting photos reflect that beauty.

What if I don't feel comfortable making Nude Photos?

A Boudoir Photography session should be fun!  If you're uncomfortable posing for Nude photographs then don't do them.  Every woman is beautiful and sexy.  You don't have to take your clothes off to take gorgeous sensual photographs.  Working in collaboration with an experienced photographer you can create amazing images clothed, partially clothed or "implied nude" (when the photographer sets the scene so that you appear to be nude but nothing is showing).  Communication is key – make sure that you have talked in detail with the photographer about your comfort levels and what your vision is of the finished product and trust that he or she will keep everything hidden that you want hidden.  Thanks to modern digital technology it is not difficult to add in extra shadows or use blurring effects to make sure that the finished product is exactly what you want.  Keep in mind also that some photographers may not shoot nude photographs, so if you are looking for nude photos ask!

But – I'm too old! I'm too overweight!  I'm not pretty enough!

Every woman is beautiful and sexy!  Ignore the overly skinny supermodels that you see everyday in advertisements!  Real women are all around you and they are all beautiful.  Be confident in yourself and your sensual nature.  And be confident that your photographer is experienced and can arrange lighting and posing in order to capture "your best side".

What do I wear?

Wear what you feel sexy in!  A Boudoir Photography session has ample time for several wardrobe changes so bring any outfits you think you might want to wear and any accessories that go with it.  Examples include a man's white dress shirt; a baseball jersey and ball cap; lacy nightie; a French maid's costume (great use of old Halloween costumes) and feather duster; plaid mini skirt and white button down shirt and anything else you can imagine!  Bring along a suitcase full of outfits.  Don't forget high heeled shoes, necklaces, bracelets and other accessories – hats, feather boas, etc.  This is a good time to play dress up!  Plan out your outfits ahead of time and try them on with different jewelry to see how they look.  The photographer may also bring some additional accessories but you should ask about props ahead of time.

What about my Make-up?

Many ladies can do their own make-up but there are other options. Salons and department store make-up counters can be good resources or you can ask your photographer if they have someone they recommend. In most cases the photography studio can contract a make up artist for an additional fee.  Don't feel compelled to wear a lot of make-up if it simply isn't your style.

Where should I have Boudoir Photographs taken?

These are not the kind of images that are on a check list at a mall portrait studio, they need to be personal and intimate.  Many women choose a photographer who will come to their home and take photographs in their bedroom.  Other women choose to go to the photographer's studio and have their Boudoir session there.  These days, though, Boudoir isn't limited to a bedroom setting and lingerie.  A number of my own customers have come to me because they were intrigued by my Retro Pinup work.  This is yet another option in Boudoir photography.

Nervous? What about a Group Photo Session?

You and three or four of your best girlfriends can get together and do your sessions at the same time. These can be done at the studio, your home or on location and should be approached with a party atmosphere.  Each of you will be photographed individually as you are dressed (or undressed) based on each person's comfort level.

Some photographers (but not all) offer couples sessions. These sessions are romantic, sensual, playful, fun and always tasteful.  If you are interested in this type of session make it part of a weekend ‘away' at a local hotel. This leaves you free from distractions and you will have some extra memories of the event.

Retouching

Many photographers include retouching with their portrait prints and albums but be sure to ask how much is included with your session. Most photographers will include minor retouching and color correction as part of their service – after all they want their work to be well represented.

Protecting your privacy

Privacy should be a major concern during your boudoir sessions. All boudoir images are kept in strict confidence and no images will be shown without permission from the client in writing. Make sure your photographer has a privacy policy as well as any professional printers they may use.

Preparing for a Boudoir Photo Session

Wear loose fitting clothing. Avoid tight fitting undergarments as they are the most likely to leave elastic pressure lines on your skin.  If you are not doing the session at your home bring as many accessories, outfits and ideas as you can.  If you decide to not use everything then it is just a little extra to carry around but its far better then to wish you had brought something.