A wedding speech should express the same sentiments whether it’s a formal function being held in the Ritz or a family affair in the bride or the groom’s home. At a more formal function the father of the bride, the father of the groom and the best man usually speak. A wedding speech may be your moment to toast the couple in style, but generally there will be at least two toasts offered, so don't feel like you have to fill lots of time. The reception will have lots of activity already planned, and you don't want to be remembered as the guy who gave that incredibly long-winded, boring speech, do you? A wedding speech spoken by Bride or Groom following their wedding vows personalizes a marriage ceremony. Written out or straight from the heart, a wedding speech expresses your love and commitment to one another.

Speak from the Heart – If it means something to you, it will mean something to the audience. Don’t be afraid to get a little mushy. Speaking about the groom, the best man is allowed to get to some mild teasing but themes like drinking or ex girlfriends are not permissible. The best man should by no means represent the groom as a drunkard, loser, or a playboy.

Personalize your speech by mentioning the names of every person in the wedding party and saying one nice thing about each of them. People love to be complimented and this works well, especially focus on the bride and groom. Personal stories help connect with an audience. From your deep well of life reflect on three events that demonstrate how much your care for and love your wife.

Humor is a great way to cut through the sentimental while offering the bride and groom your best. So, how can you add the funny to your wedding speech? Humor is always a good way to get the party in good spirits and not only that, it will help ease the best man's anxiety. If the best man sees his audience laughing he will pick up on their positive vibes and become in good spirits himself, which will only allow him to deliver his speech better.

Prepare yourself well by writing out your speech and practicing often. The best way to practice a wedding speech is to read it aloud in front of the mirror until you feel comfortable with the words. Speak clearly and slowly. Although you can have a small card to remember your points for the wedding speech, it looks rather put-on and takes away the essential charm of the emotions. Speak from your heart about the couple, touch on their strong characteristics, and mention the changes you've seen since the couple has met and you'll be well on your way to delivering a memorable speech! If you get stuck, just look at the couple and tell them why you respect them or share some fond memories and then offer a toast. Speak a bit more loudly when you get to the anecdotal parts. Then, near the end, turn up your voice full volume.