Getting back with an old flame is not something that we are ever handed an outline or a blueprint for. You are expected to just deal with the situation and move on, but what happens when you realize that she was the best thing you ever had in your life? What if you realize that she should still be your girlfriend and you don't want to have to accept her as being just your ex?

Most people are going to tell you that you just have to get on and that in time you will forget all about her. Yet, we all know guys that still talk about an ex girlfriend with a lot of passion and emotion, they apparently were not able to do it so easily. What if you are not able to, either? Can you do something about it and get back with her?

You better believe it. First of all, you have to REJECT all of those old and tired cliches. People that live their lives by these kinds of cliches end up unhappy and unfulfilled most of the time. That's not the way that you want to be.

Here are some fast and swift tips to bring back her love, so that YOU CAN be one of those guys that DOES get back their girlfriend:

1. Your mindset is going to be REALLY important, here. If you have the mindset that you are just going to give up because it seems to be too tough, then it's time for you to MAN UP and push away that doubt and that fear. You have to adopt the mindset that you WILL get her back, and build confidence around this.

2. Getting back your girlfriend takes patience.Even getting her back fast still requires that you need some PATIENCE. If you are too impatient, then the minute that she makes you feel a little jealous, or she says that she is busy when you want to talk to her, you are going to EXPLODE. Don't let impatience end up getting in the way of getting back with her.

3. You need to be able to make some real plans that you can stick by. Don't get all wishy washy, because if you do, you are NOT going to get her back. You have to adopt a plan to get her back, and stick by it no matter what. Sure you have to make some adaptations, but you have to have the fortitude to hang in there.