"How can I get my ex boyfriend to crawl back to me ?" You wish you knew the answer to that question, don't you? You love him so much and since the break up you've felt very lost and alone. You would do just about anything to win him back but you have no idea what does and doesn't work. Fortunately, there are easy ways you can change the dynamic of the relationship so he's the one craving to be back with you again. It's not nearly as difficult as you may think. If you follow proven advice, you can actually have him back and more devoted to you than ever.

When you say, "I wish I knew how to get my ex boyfriend to crawl back to me ," don't make it more complicated than it needs to be. Instead of trying to devise plans that involve making him jealous or making him feel sorry for you, you're going to learn how to press certain psychological triggers within him that will make him feel compelled to crawl back to you again.

The first step to achieving that very attainable goal is to let him go. For now, you're going to appear as though you completely accept the break up. No more crying or pleading with him. Instead, you'll appear happy and in complete control of your emotions. Call him up and tell him that you now realize what a good decision it was when he ended things. Try and sound as sincere as you possibly can. This will empower you and will show him that you're not afraid to be by yourself. It also demonstrates how mature you are.

Now, you've got to find the willpower to avoid the man for several weeks. Most women don't fully understand the power in creating distance with their ex boyfriend. If you drop out of sight it will leave him feeling confused. That confusion will quickly turn into curiosity and then longing. He'll start to imagine where you are and what you're up to. All sorts of scenarios will race through his mind. This will work in your favor because it means that he'll finally reach a point where he realizes he's about to lose the most important person in the world to him.

Stay away from him for at least two to three weeks. Suddenly, out of the blue, he'll call or text you and his demeanor will be completely different. He'll be the one hoping to get you back for good.