When you first fell in love it was the most beautiful time of your life. Now that you think you have lost your boyfriend forever it is the saddest time of your life. Those are the highs and lows of love. It is the cost of taking a chance on love. But in life you win some and you lose some. The trick is to win more than you lose and when you do lose recover your losses as quickly as possible. That is what you need to do right now, recover your loss and pull him back fast.

Although you are at the lowest point of your life emotionally, that means that there is no way to go but up. That is the positive way to look at your situation and it is that positive outlook that will get your ex boyfriend back. You will have plenty of people that will tell you to forget him and move on, but it is your life. You are the one that will have to live without the man you love. So, if you feel he is the one for you, why give him up without a fight?

You can get your ex back, and it will not take hardly any work at all. You only have to use a tactic that is simple, easy and pleasant to use. In fact if all couples used this tactic during their relationships, there might never be another breakup. It is an ingredient that you use all of the time in your daily life, but so often it is not used in a relationship. You will find it in all successful relationships and almost always find it lacking in failed ones.

When you met your man, there was an attraction and you became a couple. You had fun together, enjoyed each others company and fell in love. Things went along smoothly and you thought you would be together forever. Then your ex boyfriend told you he wanted to end the relationship and here you are in a deep valley of sadness. All of this could have been avoided if this one ingredient had not been missing.

That missing ingredient is friendship. Oh, you will say, 'but we were friends', and you were to a certain extent. But were you true friends. The type you could confide you deepest darkest secrets to? Would you have told your ex boyfriend some of the things you tell your closest girlfriend? Would he have told you things he tells his closest buddy? Would either of you have let you hair down and bare your soul to the other? Until a couple can do that, they are lovers not real true friends.

To get your ex boyfriend back , you will have to show him that you are his true friend. Show him that you can accept his weaknesses and faults as well as his good points and strengths. When you both feel that you are each others best friend and that you do not need to be afraid of showing your weakness or fears, then you will never be apart again.