A break up is usually a very depressing moment for anyone going through it. If you have just gone through a break up, you will probably be feeling quite depressed about it, especially if your ex has been ignoring you.

Perhaps, you might have these questions in your mind. "Why is my ex ignoring me? Why is my ex not picking up my phone? Does it mean my relationship is over? Does it mean I should just let go of my relationship and move on? Does it mean the end of my relationship?"

Well, if your ex is ignoring you, it does not necessary mean your relationship is over and done with. There can be many reasons why your ex is avoiding you. This is especially true if the break up has just occurred.

The point here is, if your ex is feeling depressed, he or she may have decided to avoid you so that your ex has the time to heal their emotional wound. Also, your ex may feel that he or she is not ready to talk to you yet; therefore your ex is not picking up your phone call.

So, if your ex is not picking up the phone, do not try calling hi or her over and over again. Respect your ex decision. What you can do is to wait several days before calling again. You do not want to appear too pushy. This will only make your ex feels more irritated and will only end up pushing your ex further and further away.