When I tried to get my ex lover back and save my relationship I soon realized that it was a very difficult thing to do. There was always the worry that I would make one wrong move and lose the person I loved forever. If you have been in that situation too, then you probably know what I'm talking about...

Unfortunately, when you think you are doing the right thing, often turns out to be wrong. More often should we follow the 'counterintuitive path'. So when you want to call your ex is when you should stay cool instead. And when you feel like pouring your heart out is when you should put a lid on it.

I must warn you though, as these counterintuitive techniques you're about to discover you most likely have never seen or heard of before and at first may look and feel wrong, but have been proven to be effective over and over again in even what seemed the most complicated situations. Like when I tried to save my relationship...

Counterintuitive Technique #1
So the first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. For some of you this can be very difficult to do and the chances are that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you're able to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you've beem nagging them about getting back together.

Counterintuitive Technique #2
The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You're probably about ready to close your browser right now! But wait, because this technique really does work. Here's why. Because it helps you to accept the breakup and it's also the action that shows your ex you are serious. Therefor, by not communicating you are giving your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This moment of space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique that I used to save my relationship.