If you are suffering from a recent relationship breakup with the man you love, your days and nights are probably absorbed with thoughts of him. You spend all of your time crying and asking anyone you meet for advice. Your friends will start avoiding you because they do not know how to help you and this makes you even more lonely. If this has been happening to you, do not feel alone because nearly every woman that has been dumped by the man they love goes through the same thing. Most of them snap out of it and develop a solid plan to get him back. That is what you need to do if you are to have any hope of winning your ex boyfriend back . To help you here are tested tactics to make him want you madly again.

First of all you have to stop asking others for advice. They feel sorry for you, but continually telling them your story make you become an embarrassment. You do not need anyone's help anyway. You already know what made him fall in love with you at the beginning. If it worked then, it will work now. Start by thinking of things he told you he liked about you. The way you smiled or your laugh. Do you still laugh a lot, the way you did then and have the same independent ways about you?  Winning your ex boyfriend back after a breakup, can be as simple as becoming the same woman he fell in love with then.

Of course you cannot just look into a mirror and practice your smile and laugh, then call your ex boyfriend and tell him you are back. You will have to prepare him first. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, so to make his heart grow fonder of you, it will be necessary for you to be absent for a while. That means, give him the space and time to start missing you. In the meantime, work at becoming the woman you were when he first met you. It will not be possible to recreate yourself completely because we all change with time. But come as close as possible.

When a few weeks have passed without you having any contact with him, it will be time to show him the woman he fell in love with. Get dressed the way he always liked and do your hair in the style he prefers. Wear his favorite scent and go out looking for him. Arrange to bump into him' accidentally' and let him get a good look at you. He will be stunned at seeing you and without saying a word, you will make him want you madly again .